Ntuzigere Ufata Umugabo cyangwa Umugore Wawe Nk’Usanzwe

Icyago cyoroheje mu rugo ntikigaragara buri gihe mu busambanyi, ihohoterwa cyangwa ibibazo by’amafaranga. Rimwe na rimwe kiba ari ukwibagirwa gahoro gahoro agaciro k’umukunzi wawe—igihe umwe atangira gufata undi nk’aho azahora ahari, kabone n’iyo yaba yarakerejwe, yateshejwe agaciro cyangwa amasezerano atubahirijwe.
Ntuzigere Ufata Umukunzi Wawe Nk’aho Asanzwe yavutse mu myaka y’inama z’abashakanye, ubunararibonye mu bupasitori, no mu kwitegereza ukuri guteye ubwoba: n’ingo za gikristo zikomeye cyane zishobora gusenyuka igihe ishimwe rishira kandi kumenyerana kugahinduka kwirengagiza.
Igitabo kigufungurira amarembo y’ingo nyazo—zimwe zasenyutse kubera kwishyira hejuru, kwirengagiza, no gushyira imbere ibidafite akamaro; izindi na zo zubakwa bundi bushya kubera kwicisha bugufi, kubabarirana, no kugirirwa ubuntu n’Imana. Uzahura n’abashakanye bemereye amajwi yo hanze kubayobora mu byemezo, abandi bakoresheje amafaranga nk’intwaro, abandi batamenye uburemere bw’agahinda gatezwa no kwirengagizwa mu by’amarangamutima, ndetse n’abizera bibagiwe ko indahiro atari iz’ibihe runaka—ahubwo ari izera.
Ukurikije Ibyanditswe, ubushakashatsi bugezweho ku mubano, n’ingero zifatika, uzahasanga:
Impamvu imihangayiko y’iminsi y’imperuka, ibis distraction, n’isenyuka ry’imyitwarire byahungabanyije ingo nyinshi za gikristo.
Uko “amakosa yo kutabikora” mato ashobora kurimbura urugo nk’uko guhemuka kugeretse kubyica.
Uburyo bwihishe impinduka z’amafaranga, kwivanga kw’imiryango, ndetse no “ubuhanuzi” bukoreshwa nabi bishobora gusenya ubusabane.
Intambwe ngiro zo gusubizaho icyubahiro, kubahana, no kugarura ibyishimo mu rugo rwawe—hatarabaho umuzi w’inzika.
Ibi si ugutera ubwoba gusa; ni ubutumire bwo gukora. Niba warigeze gufata urukundo rw’umukunzi wawe, kwihangana kwe, cyangwa kuba ari kumwe nawe nk’ibisanzwe—waba wabigambiriye cyangwa utabizi—iki gitabo kizaguhamagarira kongera kumureba mu maso mashya no mu mutima wuzuye ishimwe.
Urukundo ntirurindwa n’amateka—rubeshwaho no gushora imbaraga buri munsi mu bushake. N’ubundi, icyubahiro ntikiba ngombwa ngo gitangwe—cyubakwa, kigahora gishya. Kandi amagambo ateye ubwoba kurusha ay’uko “Ndashaka gatanya” si ay’uko “Ntazigera ansiga.”
Niba urugo rwawe ruri mu byishimo, ruri mu kurwana no kuramba, cyangwa ruri mu kurwana mu ibanga, iki gitabo kizagufasha kurinda umutungo Imana yakugabiye mu mugabo cyangwa umugore wawe. Ni igihe cyo kumubona atari nk’igisigara gihoraho, ahubwo nk’impano idasanzwe—iyo utagomba na rimwe gufata nk’aho ari ibisanzwe.SPOUSE Ntuzigere Ufata Umugabo cyangwa Umugore Wawe Nk’Usanzwe